The XY Code

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I’ve told you about women who took years or decades to orgasm with their husbands. Today such a woman is going to share her story with you.

While I went into our marriage with a lot of fears around sex I also knew that it was a good thing that God made. Sex is a gift, meant to be thoroughly enjoyed, and often. I am the only one my husband gets to experience that kind of pleasure and intimacy with. I am the only one he gets to look his fill at naked. Unfortunately even knowing all that it still took a lot of work on my part to get there, BUT IT WAS SO VERY WORTH IT.

Our sex life was never bad and our marriage was a happy one, but since finally learning how to orgasm with my husband it was like a new level was unlocked and the last six years have been amazing in a way I didn’t even know was possible.

If you’re struggling sexually in your marriage and feeling discouraged because you’ve been married a decade and it’s still not ‘clicking’ I just want to encourage you to keep working at it. It is absolutely worth it and the benefit is more than you could have possibly imagined.

I’m sorry sex can be so difficult for some women. I don’t think that was God’s intention, but it does happen. If you are in that place, I hope this encourages you to keep working at it.

~ Paul – I’m XY, and I love success stories! 

A post worth reading:

The Generous Husband | Friday Flashback: Do Men Want More Sex Than Women? ◄ How I think it’s supposed to be.

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