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This is my personal blog where I share my thoughts and opinions. What I write does not represent any person or organization with which I am associated. I do my best to offer factual information, but I assume no responsibility or liability for any errors or omissions on this site. I work to check links, but I may miss something or a page may be changed after I visit it. I’m not a doctor or a lawyer and I am not providing medical, legal or other professional advice, so please seek professional help when you need it.

I will not sell any of your personal or contact information to another company. I will not put your information on spam lists. I’m not responsible for the privacy practices of any of my advertisers or blog commenters.


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I am the author of The XY Code blog. 
I’m blessed to be married to The Generous Wife, and you will hear good things about her here.
I have three children, one of each*, and a growing number of grandkids.

WHERE I WORK (responsibilities and where the bucks come from)
My wonderful wife and I founded and work for The Marriage Bed, Inc. which is a division of The American Evangelistic Assoc. (they also provide our ordinations).

We are members of a local community church where we encourage small group development and marriage growth. I do occasional preaching, and we do what we can to help couples in our church who need a bit of marriage help.

I am a member of the American Association of Christian Counselors
I am a member of the Christian Marriage Bloggers Association and part of its core group.


When I link to a product or service, the link may be monetized, meaning I receive some monetary benefit when you purchase through these links. There is no change in your purchase price, I just receive a small commission from the merchant for bringing you to their door. 

That said, I only recommend products or services I use personally or believe will be of value to my readers.

I receive commissions through these affiliate programs.

Viglink –  VigLink badge – The Generous Husband is a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means to earn fees by linking to and affiliated sites.
Covenant Spice – bedroom items
Melt: Massage for Couples 
Honoring Intimates – lingerie

Unless otherwise noted, all web site design (Theme: Natural Lite by Organic Themes ), text, graphics, layout and content contained in this website are the sole property of Paul H. Byerly, The Generous Husband. Please feel free to share content, but please attribute my original work to The Generous Husband and provide a link. Please do not copy comments to posts without obtaining the permission of the author of the comment.

Banner Image © Monika Wisniewska |
All other photo credits are sited at the end of each blog post.


p style=”text-align: justify;”>* Girl, boy, and imaginary. 

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