If you don’t feel your husband loves you, your marriage can’t be healthy. Thing is, his loving you and you feeling loved may not go hand in hand. Ultimately, what you feel is what matters.

If you don’t feel loved, saying, “I do not feel loved” is better than saying “You do not love me.” If he does love you, saying he doesn’t becomes a point of conflict. Conflict is not a good way to encourage him to show love in the way(s) you need.

Tell him you don’t feel loved, and then tell him what would make you feel loved. Give him a challenge and see what he does with it. It’s his job to do his best to love you in a way you can feel. It’s your job to try to see his intent, even when you don’t feel loved.

~ Paul – I’m XY, and I want to know how to make my lady feel loved!

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