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Imagine this: The next time you have sex, your husband makes it all about you. He does exactly what you want for as long as you want. And he keeps doing that until you’re satisfied and happy. Of course these leaves him in need of coming, so you invite him in for a quickie or encourage him to stroke himself while you hold him. The point is, the sex is all about and all for you.

If you’re thinking your hubby would never do this, let me make a suggestion. What if you said you would make sex all about him if he would do the same for you on another occasion? If he’s game, you could do him first, or ask to be first, or play rock paper scissors to see who goes first.

This probably isn’t how either of you want to have sex every time, but it can be fun on occasion. It can be a way for one of you to do something special for the other. Or one of you could ask for it when you’d like to be pampered.

A side benefit of doing this is that it allows you to educate each other about what you like. And you can carry that into the rest of your sexual encounters.

BTW, when you’re making it all about him, make your orgasm part of his enjoyment. After you’ve made him feel very good, but before you make him come, take care of yourself while he watches. Or straddle one of his legs and hump it while you play with his penis a bit.

~ Paul – I’m XY, and it’s nice when it’s all about you!

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